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Messages of Support for Christina
Applegate
![]() Message from Johnathon Schaech Please support your local Cancer Organisations, including: ![]() Messages of Support May 2009 From Susan Davis Dear Christina, If you ever thought you would be able to speak at a FORCE
conference, that would be fantastic for all of us who attend each year. You
can contact the Director and Founder about FORCE or anything relating to BRCA
mutations by e-mail at suefriedman@facingourrisk.org.
Should you want to contact me, Sue Friedman can provide my e-mail
address to you. You’re a brave woman and you’re doing a great service to the community. Coming forward with your diagnosis and BRCA results have given a “voice” to this very important topic that very few people know about, and helped those of us with FORCE do outreach in our community. I appreciate it tremendously – you are beautiful both inside and out. Outreach Liaison - FORCE August 2008 From Laura Christina, Just wanted you to know that I think you are an amazing actress. Ever since I saw you in Don't Tell Mom The Babysitter's Dead you instantly became one of my favorite actresses and I grew up watching that movie. Even though I'm only 16 you are such an inspiration for me. I know I can't relate to you and can't imagine what you're going through, but I lost one of my grandmothers to breast cancer although she passed away before I was born. You're so young and a person like you does not deserve to be going through this. Stay strong and your fans are always behind you 100 percent no matter what happens. Also for laughs I have to add this in:"No, I've never been to Santa Barbara." One of my favorite movie quotes ever! Love you! - Laura From Gail Christina,
I've been thinking of you these past few
days........and.........just wondering how you're doing. I
wanted to
spread some "cheer," so here goes...........
"Ready...............OK!!!"
"I got this feelin', (oh yeah), this great big
feelin', (oh yeah),
it's in my soul, (oh yeah), it makes me
whole. (OH YEAH!!)
We'll give it a whirl, (oh yeah), YOU GOT
THIS girl!!! (OH YEAH!!)
Thinking of you and sending a BIG HUG,
Gail
From Lora Dear Christina I just want you to know how much I admire your strength, not only to fight what you are fighting, or to take the preventative measures you needed to, but also to go public with something that could not be more personal. I hope you realize how many people's lives you will be saving by being such a strong role model and symbol of hope and strength. My mother was diagnosed with breast cancer at 35 and at 39 she passed away from it, I was 8. Now I am 24 and I am starting to have to deal with my future and my health, and it scares the hell out of me. I have had both my grandmother's survive the disease and my mother sure as hell tried. I am about as "high risk" as they come. I have not been tested for the BRCA gene yet, I don't know how I would handle the results. The ghostly chance is already affecting me, my relationship with my boyfriend and how I view life. I have started to do a lot of research on the gene testing and on preventative surgeries. One book that really helped me was "Pretty is What Changes" by Jessica Queller. I really recommend it to you, though I am sure you have already read it, or been told about it. She is a writer for some of the shows on the CW network, so maybe you two have crossed paths at some point in the entertainment world. I hope that you continue to bring awareness not just to the disease, but also to prevention, and to let people know that the disease can hit anyone at any age, and affects so much more than the person battling it. I hope you nothing but health, healing and happiness from here on out!... and I can't wait for the new season of Samantha Who? All my love, From Nickie Thank you Christina for putting your beautiful young face to Breast Cancer and mastectomy. I myself found out on the 4th August that I have Lobular Breast cancer that has spread to my lymph node. I’d never heard of it. I made the decision to have the double mastectomy - Lat dorsi flap with expanders (next week on the 3rd Sept) because I have seen my best friend battle cervical cancer and now breast cancer. She had the op only 3 months ago and her hair is just starting to grow back now from the chemo. If she can do it then so can I. After all, they are only boobs. I can handle some scars because it will help to save my life or at least prolong it. I’m not focusing on the fact I have cancer but that I’m going to have an enviable stack that I’ll be able to pump up as much as I want before the silicon goes in. And no more Bras!! My friend and I will be in competition to see how far we can go (not really, I’d fall over, but that’s what the guys like to hear). You know yourself that the scars are not so bad these days and my friend is doing great now that she is seeing results with the saline being pumped in every couple of weeks. Nickie Brown From Harlan I hope you'll make a full recovery and resume your career as before! Best wishes!! :) Harlan From Beverly When I saw your interview on GMA, I cried. It was like I was looking in the mirror. In April on 2007 I was diagnosed with DCIS breast cancer in one breast. I was told that we caught it very early. I had two unsuccessful lumpectomies and was told that I needed to have a mastectomy. I too chose to do a bi-lateral mastectomy. Some people thought that I was crazy but it was the best decision I made in my life.I have gone thru with the breast reconstruction. I go for my final procedure in September. I can't wait to finish up and put this behind me. I think that the most important thing is having a positive attitude. I too joked about having the perkiest boobs in the So keep up with your great attitude and keep moving forward. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care of yourself. Beverly Attinger From Martin Hi Christina, Having bought the complete 11 season dvd set of Married ... with children sometime ago, and enjoying them for the second time (you guys get better every time I play the dvd's!), you can imagine I was really shocked to read about your diagnose, about a month ago. Your courageous decision reminded me of what one of the Bundy's once said: "A Bundy never wins, but a Bundy never quits!" I think you will be a great example to other people, certainly a better example than a female comedian from The Netherlands a couple of years ago, Sylvia Millecam, who got the same diagnose you did, but instead opted to go to a faith healer. Her death led to an outcry over faith healers, but apart from that, was a terrible waste of a great talent. Wishing you all the best and a speedy recovery - and remember: never quit! Kindest regards, Martin van Raay (Culemborg, The Netherlands) From Tania Christina, thank you so much for sharing your story about your breast cancer fight and the story about BRCA testing. I am a counsellor from Ontario Canada and we don't have the worry about costs associated with this test but of course the wait times for results are excrutiatingly long (9 months to a year or more). In northern Ontario we still don't have access to breast MRI so this is another issue we must deal with. I am happy you have opened the door to more discussion about testing and the options avilable for women of all ages who have breast/ovarian cancer or who may be at high risk for getting this disease. Every effort is worth it and using your money and status only brings positive media attention to this important issue. Thank you again for sharing. From Patsy Please send Christina my best wishes for a speedy recovery. I have had 4 women in my family already affected by breast cancer. I am 37 and have to be constantly monitored because it runs in the family. Christina is a very strong woman and the courage she has displayed in this time of trial is admirable. Patsy Rivera From Robert A very brave and SMART decision to opt for the double mastectomy. You are an example to all women diagnosed with and having to deal with this illness, and an inspiration to all for your bravery and refusal to yield in times of trial. You did the right thing Christina, you are going to win this fight and we all look forward to many more comedy and dramatic roles in your career. p.s. my daughter's name is Christina and she too is a cancer survivor and so is my wife's aunt, a breast cancer survivor some 30 years now. R L J London Ontario Canada From Dan Unger Dear christina hello honey. Im praying for you everyday. You can win this. Your a fighter.and im praying for you to have a fast recovery.. I think of you everyday.my mom had cancer about 35 years ago. And she made it. Thank god for that.i wish i could do something for you. But i wanted to send you my love to let you know all of From Talia Dear Christina, I am a genetic counselor in I was shocked and saddened to hear about your diagnosis. As you have been public with this, I am especially impressed that you not only mentioned your family history, but also your BRCA1 mutation status. There is way too much fear about genetic testing, that definitely keeps women from even pursuing genetic counseling to learn about their risks and what they can do about it. (we genetic counselors do not chase people down with needles or knives! Patients unfortunately see counseling and testing/preventive surgery as one in the same and so they avoid it all) You were fortunate enough to have very savvy doctors to get you started early and with the best screening methods (MRI!!!) Unfortunately many docs out there are just not clued in and patients are on their own. Thank you for your honesty and your willingness to go out on a limb and admit a very personal thing. You are a champion certainly to me and I’m sure, to every genetic counselor out there. I wish you a speedy recovery and hope that indeed it was caught very very early so as not to need any adjuvant treatment. I’m sure you have the best of the best medical providers there are to offer. However, if there’s anything I can possibly do, please don’t hesitate. All the best of health for your future, Talia Talia Donenberg, M.S., CGC University of Miami/Jackson Health System Phone: 305-243-3627 Fax: 305-243-4938 From Krista Harvey Hi Christina, I was diagnosed with Stage IIB breast cancer in 2001 when I was 29 years old. I had lumpectomy, chemo and radiation. I have had several scares thru the years after diagnosis and finally decided to take control. In February 2008 I had bilat mastectomies with immediate reconstruction. I am going in September to have nipple reconstruction. I know exactly how you are feeling. I too am 36 years old and it was a hard decision. I had genetic testing and turns out I am BRCA2 positive. So I made the right choice. But even if it's our decision it's still a hard decision. And it's very hard to take that first look after surgery. I cried and was scared to let my surgeon or husband see. But they were both awesome and said I looked beautiful. I am in a very helpful support group. Young survivor coalition. You should check in to it. Or you can ALWAYS talk to fellow survivors. We are young women but unfortunately we are growing in numbers every year. Take care and I will pray for your continued recovery. Sincerely, Krista Harvey (6 1/2 year survivor) From Lisa Brown Hi Christina,
From Alaina Hi Christina, I love pretty much all of your work, and wish you a speedy recovery. I'm sure you faced a tough decision, but hopefully it will help make people with a family history of breast cancer become aware of the benefits of early detection, and save their lives. Get well soon, keep up the good work, and good luck with the Emmy nomination. :) Alaina From Agy My prayers for you....your a strong woman and a hero for many as well...luv ya christina...xoxoxo From Tara Christina, Thank you for being so open about your battle with breast cancer. I am 26 years old and was diagnosed with breast cancer a month ago. So far I have undergone a lumpectomy and am waiting on my BRCA1 test results. I will receive chemotherapy and eventually have a bilateral mastectomy. I am so glad that you are starting an organization to help women cover the costs for BRCA1 testing and MRI's. I had to have a mammogram before my lumpectomy, which gave us absolutely no information about what was going on. After I was diagnosed, my doctor told me that I was going to have an MRI because it was very accurate and my insurance would now pay for one. I was so angry when I found out that I could have had an MRI sooner, and that my insurance was holding up the process. You are a wonderful person and have helped me to keep my positive attitude! I am going to survivor this! Tara From Gail Christina,
I want to say.......just what a great thing you did in
educating
all of us re. early detection. I can't even imagine how hard
it was
for you.........to let everyone know what was going on. Thnak
you so
much for that.
And what a blessing.....when I heard you were
cancer-free.
PLEASE KEEP YOUR SPIRIT
PUMPED!!! (I'm an advocate for
always
keeping everyone's spirits up--no matter what's going on--and in the
case of cancer--I'm the cheerleader in the background going, "PUSH IT
OUT, SHOVE IT OUT, WAYYYYYY OUT!!!!!!"
Or, another mantra, "FIGHT,
FIGHT, FIGHT!!!")
My thoughts and prayers are definitely with you, your
family and
friends.........May you have a speedy
recovery. God Bless
You...........
Much love.........OOxxx
Gail
Rockford, IL
From Lauren Dear Christina, I'm so glad to hear that you had a great recovery from your double mastectomy and are now clear of breast cancer! It must have been a very hard decision to choose which coarse of action to take following your diagnosis. It seems that you made a smart one and I admire your bravery. My mother was diagnosed with breast cancer three months ago and she had lumpectomy and just had her fourth round of chemo. Once she's finished, she will have to decide whether or not to have a mastectomy. Reading how your mother also had the disease, I felt very inspired by your story. I wish you all the luck and will keep you in my thoughts! Sincerely, Lauren From Greg Christina, You are the best! I have been a fan since the begining, and even got the chance to see you in Sweet Charity in Chicago before you broke your foot. You were amazing! Your courage and honesty during this ordeal has made you even more beautiful and sexier than you could know. We as your fans really do care about you, and are glad that we can be your fans for a long, long time to come! I hope everything goes well for you in the coming months. I know it will; just like you said in your interview; " only good things from here on out!" You are in my thoughts, and much love always Greg From RRCB That is incredible news! I lost my grandmother to cancer when I was a child. Times can get so hard. I still hold her picture close to my heart, knowing that she is safe in heaven. I know Christina is strong, going through cancer has got to be the toughest in anyones life. She encourages me to get tested. I have never been. I always fear the doctor would take me into her office and say "You have Cancer." Those three words. Christina is so strong and so amazing at everything she does. She inspires me to be just as strong. You're right John, with each new victory we get close to winning the war. Thank you so much for posting, and for letting us all know how she is doing. She is in my heart, thoughts and prayers. God Bless. From Kathy Hi Jonathon, Thank you for putting up this section where people can send their support for Christina. I want to also say I'm sorry also about the two people you mentioned that you lost to cancer. Bless you! Dear Christina, I just wanted you to know that I think you are one of the most beautiful, brave, courageous and strong souls I've ever encountered. I'm so glad that you stood up, armed yourself and went face to face with this monster named cancer...staring it down until it was gone. I know your decision must have been heartbreaking and devastating and I want you to know, I totally support you. I am 41 and got a return call on a mammogram - and I never went back. That was two years ago. I ran like a scared rabbit (and continue to). Women like you are my heroes. I was recently visiting www.annjillian.com, I'm sure you know who she is, and the two of you, and everyone else battling the disease, continue to encourage and inspire me not to keep running. To stand up and face it down....even if I don't even have it...even if whatever it was is gone by now. Christina, I send you my love and all the supportive hugs in the world that a woman can offer another woman during a time like this. I'll also continue to pray for you, send healing vibes your way and light a pure white candle for you and all those other brave and beautiful souls like yourself. You are a warrior Christina and I KNOW you will indeed live to be 90 - heck even 99!! Carry on Girl!!!! luv you lots, Kathy Orange County, CA From Naoko Dear Ms. Christina, I was diagnosed with breast cancer three month ago. You and I are the same age.... I'm on my neoadjuvant chemotherapy right now which will be followed by the surgery. You are an inspiration to my husband, daughter(just turned one year old) and I... I've heard that the God only challenges the strong ones, because he knows that he/she can get through it and get even stronger and brighter. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless your courageous heart. Love, Naoko From Jennifer Thank you, Christina for being an inspiration to me. I have been a fan of yours for as long as I can remember, and I started this website out of my appreciation for you and what you do. I am so proud of your courage and your amazing spirit! I hope to see you continue to be yourself and inspire many more people, as you have me for all these years. Jennifer from http://www.christina-applegate.org From Lisa Dear Christina, You are in my thoughts...you have brought so much joy to the world over the years... we are all truly blessed to have you as part of our lives. 'Samantha Who?' was the funniest show on the air last season, i never missed it, and i do believe that you should take home the emmy for all the hard work you put in... the show wouldn't have been the same with any other actress. many a night your performance filled my home with uprorious laughter! my prayers are with you for a speedy recovery and perfect health...hugs & much love to you & your friends & family! From Rhonda Christina, I was so sorry to learn of your recent diagnosis with an early form of breast cancer. When I heard your interview, all I could say was yes, yes, as I felt the same way upon learning of my diagnosis this past May of an early form of breast cancer. I couldn't believe this was happening and knowing that my daughter's wedding was in three months. I immediately elected to have a double mastectomy even I had no maternal family history and it was found only on one side. During surgery cancer was also found in my opposite breast, so I am relieved that I made that decision. I too will be glad to join you at the bridge table! Please know that the big "C Club" has many guardian angels praying for you. Please let me congratulate you upon your continued recovery and for coming forward to announce to the world your experiences. Just know that you have already helped so many women by doing just this. Your efforts towards MRI's being made available to women is awesome! I felt compelled to send you a note as an immediate feeling of mine was to be a advocate to other women. God Bless! From Gingersnap You are truley a gentleman to be there for her! Christina,if you read this I want you to know you are in my prayers! stay strong and you will pull through! my best to you and your family! From Thayenga Hi Christina, I just want you to know that you are in my prayers. May the Creator grant you a speedy and, above all, complete recovery. You are loved by so many, by millions whose hearts you have touched. In any case, you've touched mine and gave me countless entertaining hours. I want more! So I'm sending you my prayers, much healing energy and positive thoughts. You are a very brave and strong lady, you are giving hope to millions of people. You, Christina, you are a blessing. Thank you for You! Keep up the fight, lady. You will win. NAMASTE <>-<>May Grandfather Watch Over You and Keep You Safe<>-<> With Love and Respect. Thayenga From Diane and Grant - New Zealand Hi
Christina
Firstly,
thank you Johnathon allowing the use of your e-mail.
We
have just heard the news of your recent double mastectomy on our local
radio station in Auckland, New Zealand. We wish you all the best for
your recovery and especially your reconstruction. Johnathon said on his
website that you were very positive, that is the best way to
be!! We remember you as a young girl on "Married With
Children", but also in more recent programs & movies. You are a
beautiful young woman with a lot of living to do!
Being
positive helped me through my breast cancer ordeal. I was
diagnosed in August 2005 (age 49) and had a mastectomy later
that year. I had chemotherapy and radiation recommended by my
oncologist. I was also unfortunate to be diagnosed with HER2+ breast
cancer which meant a 12 month course of Herceptin. Doubly unfortunate
is that Herceptin is not funded in New Zealand and at a cost of
$106,000.00 was paid by us with a great deal of fundraising. I
have just recently had my reconstruction and it is fabulous!!
I feel complete again!
We
have a daughter who is 29 and she is presently living in England. She
found a lump in her breast back in May this year. Because of family
history on my husbands side, she asked the surgeon to remove both her
breast as well, just as a precaution. We went to England to
be with her when she had her surgery. She has recovered extremely well
and is very positive about her future. She will have her reconstruction
later this year and the doctors have recommended she have the BRAC gene
testing as well.
Once
again, wishing you all the best for your recovery.
Regards
Diane
& Grant McCormack
Auckland, N Z From Kathy Hello! In June, I
received my first abnormal mammogram. I am 48 and have had
mammograms
faithfully since the age of 40. No family history.
After biopsy in
July, I received the diagnosis of right breast cancer. Due to
the
nature of the cancer (multifocal,
extensive area, slight infiltrating area etc.)., a mastectomy was
recommended, and less than three weeks ago I had it. What I
have found
since then is that it is a huge pain to have only ONE breast!
I guess
I'm glad I didn't start with THREE! :)
Anyway, knowing now what I didn't know then, I have
just made
arrangements to have the left breast removed as well. So, in
September, I'll go through it one more time. And, like you, I
plan to
be 100% cancer free and also free from the constant doctor
visits, threat and fear of occurrence in the other
breast.
I figure they were fun while they lasted, but they're
not essential to who I am!
Maybe we should sponsor a "Thanks for the Mammaries"
event, too! :)
Best of luck to you…..
From Liillian Dear Christina, I'm so proud of you, as a woman, to take this bold step.I know it wasn't easy to do, but this was much better than going through the horrible experience of radiation and chemotherapy. Thank God for plastic surgeons and breast implants. LoL. Just want to make you smile a little. God Bless you, and I wish you the best of luck in this world. MUAH. Lots of Love, Lillian Souhrada Staten Island, NY From Hollie Pay no attention to
idiots who question your decision--only YOU can walk in your shoes and
face your health history. Your story inspired me to get my
mammogram
scheduled. May God bless you and comfort you as you face
another
surgery and recovery period. I love your new TV show--you are
funny
and talented!
Hollie in Temecula, CA
From Jennie Dear Christina, The whole world is thinking of you right now. You are in my thoughts and prayers. You have given so much joy to complete strangers. Your gift isn't your beauty. It's the ability to be able to transport us into another world where nothing else matters, where nothing else exist but that purely happy 1/2 hour of the week. I hope you feel all the love and support that is coming right back at you. Be well. You are loved and blessed. Jennie. From Tom Hi
there.. please pass on that I(and my wife) admire Christina's
strength and spirit through this difficult time. four years
ago I lost a lady who was like a mother to me, but she kept
the same strong spirit to the end with cancer.
I
hope all goes well and wish Christina a speedy recovery. I
have enjoyed her acting and beauty for many years. I know
that both are as strong as ever today and she will continue to make us
all laugh and envy the those blessed with her companionship.
Much
Love, Prayers and Respect
Tom
Braxton
London
Ontario Canada
From Cathy Bright blessings and courage to Christina, to fight this disease. My parents fought it long and hard and even though they did not win the fight I know and believe there are people who can and have beaten the disease. Sincere thoughts to her and thank you Johnathon for allowing us to show our care and concern for Christina. Cathy Mobile, AL From Tina SENDING PRAYERS AND GOOD THOUGHTS YOUR WAY!!! From Serena Christina, you are an inspiration to so many who need hope & light in their lives. My thoughts and prayers are with you ~ health & abundant blessings for a special lady! xoxoxo Serena From Niove wow, i had no idea about christina until today when i saw the daily 10 on E. thats VERY good that she and her mother, are both cancer free! i wish her and her family the best and look at it this way, like what she said shes gunna have the best ta ta's at the nursing home!lol! god bless, niove r. From Chad Rivers Im glad that you decided to do this its so good to know that there are still people who care about others. We should all care about one another like this regardless of who we are. My thoughts and prayers are with christina and i know she will overcome this obstacle. Take care and god bless. From Joe I know have a new idol. She is brave to come out on tv about her disease and to help other woman who might be in trouble to aquire Cancer and I applad her for that. My mon had a double mastectomy and she recovered for it. God bless her and I hope she has a quick recovery. Joe From Celtic Princess Dear Christina,i admire the fact that you fought this cancer i have never been in your shoes, but you are an inspiration to all women. i don't know you, but from what i know you have such a great spirit about yourself. you are such a beautiful lady and you have a good sense of humor that goes along with all your abilities. may God bless you!and continue to keep you well. From Zydecane - Cajun music band We love you Christina! Take care- rest and get well!!! our hopes and prayers are with you!! From Mark Hi Christina, From EVERYONE in Austin, Texas, you are a HUGE inspiration of courage, hope, drive and spirit to folks who not only have had cancer, but also to those who have not. I really believe that the true test of life is how you deal with what comes your way, and you’re really showing the world how it’s done. You’re a wonderful actress and have always brought joy to people, and while you continue to do that, you have also given a great gift to those now facing cancer. While helping a relative get through cancer at M.D. Anderson in Houston, I met so many great people with many different types of cancer and being around them was one of life’s great opportunities. I know there’s more entering M.D. today, tomorrow and for some time to come, and they now have you giving them the indomitable spirit they need. ‘IC’ - Indomitable Christina! IC for Breast Cancer ! Thanks Johnathon for passing this on! Bless ya, IC! Mark Holliway Austin, Texas From Dennis Hello from Columbus, Ohio. I'm sitting here watching season five of Married with Children and I'm reminded of an Ed O'Neill interview where he talked about how tough you were during your mother's illnesses. That toughness still seems to be the case today. I admire you for that. I watched your interview with Robin Roberts and your decision didn't seem to surprise me that much. You have such a passion for living and I guess that your decision in a way was almost obvious. I dunno. Your toughness is a gift and I can't imagine how many you've inspired by this. I'm sure you'll get so many requests, but Race For The Cure is huge in this city with about 30,000 participants per year. We'd love to have you in town for it next year. Please consider. And above all, we love you. Keep on keepin' on. Dennis Kelley From Michelle Dear Christina - I just wanted you to know that you are a inspiration to all women. You are a very brave person and I know you will overcome. I love your t.v. show Samantha Who and can't wait for the return after the summer. After reading your story I scheduled my sonogram and mammography I have been putting off for 6 months. It made me realize even if your in your 30's you always have to take care of yourself and get checked... Thanks again for being so brave and making women realize how important it is to be screened. God Bless and stay positive:) Michele. From Glenn i have never in my life sent
any sort of "fan mail", nor have i ever sent any correspondence to any
celebrities. After reading that only three weeks ago you had
a double mastectomy, i had to write to wish you well, and to tell you
how amazing i think you are. i've watched you over the years
on various shows and movies, and have always enjoyed your
work. This i'm sure, has been the toughest thing you've ever
been through, and you have all the blessings in the world from
me. Keep up your strength of character and i wish you all the
success in helping many other women get tested.
Thank you Christina!
Lots of hugs to someone i don't know, but am glad is around.
Be well.
Glenn Lee
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
From Debra My
name is Debra Uhrig and I live in Manalapan, NJ. I am the
same age as Christina and looked up to her as I watched her on T. V.
since Married With Children. I too had breast
cancer. I was diagnosed at the age of 31. I am a survivor,
just like Christina will be. I just read
on-line that after she was diagnosed with an early stage of cancer she
still opted for a bilateral mastectomy. I wanted to let her
know that she ABSOLUTELY did the right thing. I chose to do
the same, for me it was a "no brainer". I did not want to
worry month after month if it would come back. I also felt that if I
did it that way, the reconstruction would be done at the same
time and it would be done "evenly" --- being "small" to begin with, I
was also able to a bit "bigger" --- LOL. I am a 3rd
generation breast cancer patient and I refused to let this take me
down, especially with a very young child. Like myself, I am
sure that Christina is going to the best doctors, but there are some
things that I had to investigate myself and decisions I made with my
gut and not through statistics. I also did genetic testing
which opened up another set of doors and other preventative routes I
had to take. On September 22, I will have my 5 years in and
will celebrate my 37th birthday with my 7 year old --- that is what is
important, not what was removed or taken out.
Please pass on to Christina that my heart sank when I read her story
and the decisions she made because I felt I was reading my
story. I wish her all my love and wishes. This is
just a bump in the road. Keep a good sense of humor and make
light of what is to come, it sucks now but before you know it, your on
your feet and ready to help other "sisters" out there survive.
Love
and strength,
Debra
From Mary Lou Dear
Christina,
I am a
49-year old mom and teacher and I decided to have a double mastectomy
with reconstruction about a year and a half ago after I found out I had
cancer in one breast and BRCA1 gene. It's going to be tough
for a little while but before you know it, life will get back to normal
and you will feel healthy and whole again. When the
reconstruction is all finished, you will be amazed at how good you
look. Your new boobs will take a little getting used to but
they do look great and they will never sag! Rest as much
as you can and let people who love you help you through
this. You made the right decision and everything is going to
be great.
Love,
Mary Lou
P.
S. I have three daughters who will have to worry
about this and if they are faced with a cancer diagnosis, I'll
be able to tell them about how brave you were.
From Shannon I hope everything goes well for you, and i will be
praying for you everyday.
I know you will make it through cause your a very strong person. Best of wishes to you Love, Shannon From Shawn Dear Christina, I am so sorry that your spring/summer has well, sucked so very fuckin much. Things will get better. Infact they already are. But you know that already. You are good that way. You are my absolute fave in every possible way! You always will be. I know you can get thru this shit because you are strong, in fact strength is a very big part of your beauty, and you are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. I love Samantha and also I hope to see your beautiful butt bouncing on Broadway again ASAP. Stay well. Stay strong. Stay working (so I can see you). I love you and will even when your older than Betty White. Love from Shawn Weatherhead the forever fanguy from fla. P.S. Don't tell Betty I called her old she might be sensitive and she looks like she could be mean when crossed. From Alex Christina, [Please read this email all the way through and I do want to apologize now because I am sure I will sound like a new age yuppy, but at least read the whole email It cant hurt can it?] I really don't know where to start. Since I don't personally know you. I don't even know if you will get to read this but I wanted to let you in on a secret ... well two secrets the first is quite simple its Faith beliving everything happens for a greater reason even something as simple as washing the dishes its where your supposed to be at that moment. You may be able to take something from this and grow as a person as an artist. Feel the emotions you are feeling don't rush it. Embrace the good and the bad. The less we feel the less we are. Go through the emotions one by one get sad get pissed off feel it this way your mind can heal itself. When this happens your body's energy will be balanced enough for you to start the physical healing process. I am sure you already heard about this but its not something to be taken lightly so before I jump right into it. I want to give you a little back story about me. Both my grand parents died of cancer way before I was born. At age 8 I developed anorexia and later on beinge disorder ... Through out my teenage years with the help of friends, family and a shrink. Given all my experiences. I became more and more interested in the healing powers that food had to offer. I realized after spending so much time focusing on the bad qualities. It was time to focus on the blessings that food can give. Ok so I know I am sounding really like a spacey new age hippy freak. This lead me to study holistic nutrition and the thing that I have learned from first hand experience and seeing it repeated with other people while I was studying in college. Food can change your entire existence. I believe that if you have a diet heavy in antioxidants and eat green vegetables that naturally have anti-cancers nutrients it will change your life. I am sure you eat healthy and take care of yourself by working out daily but I recommend going to a nutritionist once a week and seeing a personal trainer three times a week also talk to them about your options in addition to traditional treatments these few simple things will change your life. I grantee you will be surprised at what kind of power food really has. Also my last word of advice is to talk to somebody wither it be a family member, a professional or a trusted friend. Still talk even if the cancer goes into remission because there is still that fear and to stay healthy both mentally and physically you need to release these feelings. Your in my prayers just remember to stay strong, feel it and keep on fighting one day at a time. Best of luck. - Alex [Alessandro Maletti]" From Marilyn I have to congratulate you two for being able to put personal issues aside and be human beings to each other during this tough time. Unfortunately, my husband is unable to do that so while going through tough physical problems, I am going through an ugly divorce as well. God Bless you both and both of your families. I wish Christina well in her recovery and totally understand being strong and so sure of what the future holds one day, and a basket case the next. I have sarcoidosis and I have been having problems that three lung specialists don't know how to treat. I am sure that I will be fine, however, I don't know where else to go to seek treatment. I feel like crap most days and was scared to death to see Bernie Mac die because I just went through a bout with pneumonia. I will be praying for you. Marilyn Cintron From Diana My thoughts and prayers are with you Christina... Be strong, stay strong!!! I am here as a support person... To Johnathon.. You are awesome to stand by your Beautiful friend... "Think Pink" (smiles) your friend~D From Justina Christina,
Where to start ... I wish you a speedy recovery, I
know how
difficult the next few months will be. My sister Sandra (42)
was dx
with breast cancer in May of 2007, she tested for the BRCA gene and it
came back positive BRCA1. We are 8 siblings so far 3 of us
are
positive. I had a PBM in April 2008, and my sister
Selina (31) had a
PBM 3 weeks ago. Sandra was fortunate when her
doctor ordered an MRI
due to our family history, her cancer was caught early!
I wish you were not part of this special club, but
when I heard
you mention the BRCA gene on GMA it gave me some hope. There
is just
so much ignorance and we experience so many unkind words from people
who just don't understand what we are going through and the hard
choices we have to face. Not just the preventive
mastectomy, but some
of us also choose to have our ovaries removed. It so hard, our
bodies
go through so much and its such an emotional roller
coaster.
I hope you have a good support system in place,
and are surrounded
by many loved ones that will take good care of you while you
heal. We
are NOT crazy, we want to live cancer free and doing everything in our
power to make sure that happens. My little sis was in tears
when she
told me about your diagnosis, and some of her first words were "See I'm
not crazy to do this at 31!".
I've never written a celebrity ever but I felt
compelled to tell
you there are many of us and when we read your story and hear your
words we share in your fears and in your laughter. We'll all
have
perky boobs in our 80s! You also help validate to the world
that this
is not a choice, preventing cancer is not a choice.
You looked amazing after just three
weeks! You are a very strong and brave woman.
Many Many Positive Thoughts your way!
Justina
From Jackie Christina, You are Very brave. You made a very though decision ( I think a very good one) and that makes you a VERY strong women. My thoughts and prayers are with you during your recovery. Hearing this news about you has really made me start thinking more about it and it will help millions of other women also. You are a beautiful person and you deserve a great life!!! Keep on fighting and one day you will look back on this and know that it made you a stronger person and you will be thankful because this is going to shape the rest of your life!!!! Love, Jackie From Sylvia Hi Christina, I applaud you for having shared your story with the multitude of viewers and readers that have now learned of your situation. Two great quotes came to mind when I thought of you. "Courage: a perfect sensibility of the measure of danger, and a mental willingness to endure it." William Sherman "Let us not look back in anger or forward in fear, but around in awareness." James Thurber Your selflessness in using this to bring awareness and save the lives of women is worthy of every award, trophy, and praise I can think of. Really, thank you. Just by what you've already done, know that a little girl will have her mother for many more years to come. A husband will celebrate more wedding anniversaries with his sweetheart. -A teacher will be able to continue touching and influencing the lives of her students, and a future world leader will be conceived from a cancer free mother....All this because you're executing the power of your voice and inspiring people by sharing your experience. Perhaps one day we can show off each other's cancer scars...as I too am a cancer survivor. It's by the grace of big "J" that I'm here. God bless you too. Love, Sylvia DeMarco From Deb Dear Christina,
I have never, in 20
years, written anyone about my breast cancer. But, you remind
me so much of my daughter.
She is around your age and so
beautiful and very much at risk to develop this disease because of me
and my legacy.
I want you to know that
the thoughts and prayers of people you will never know are
lifted up. Not only for you, but others who find themselves
wondering what tomorrow or the next months will hold.
I was diagnosed with breast
cancer at 30. I was a young mother and wife.
Following a modified radical
mastectomy and months of chemo I began to climb back to some sense
of a normal life with the help of my family and
friends.
That doesn't happen quickly.
After chemo I looked like Yul
Brenner for a while. My husband finally shaved my head after
most of my hair fell out by the handfull. I cried a
lot of tears during that time.
Wigs itched and were
uncomfortable so I switched to bright turbans with big
earrings to match.
(Without going into any
details, let's just say that chemo is a whole other nightmare
and story in itself.)
Mastectomy swimsuits at that
time were a challenge - to say the least. A mastectomy two
piece was unheard of back then and in my early 30's I did not want to
wear a "grandma" swimsuit.
I had to wear a prothesis for
years. Damned things were hot and bothersome and
uncomfortable.
We lived in a fairly small town
and there was no one my age with this desease. I felt very
isolated and my body mutilated.
However - as strange
as this sounds, cancer makes you strong. It makes
you appreciate life. It makes you aware that your life can
change in a minute
so don't take your family or
friends for granted. I have never looked at life the same
since that time.
Dating after my divorce, some
years later, was not easy. I had not yet had reconstruction.
It took me 13 years to even consider reconstructive
surgery.
A relationship could
only go so far without having to explain that part of your body is
missing.
In some ways I wish I had gone
back sooner and had the reconstruction, as you are doing,
but at the time of the cancer
and chemo I just couldn't go back under the knife.
However, in 1999 a friend told
me about a new technique that was available for reconstructive
surgery and I went to visit a plastic surgeon. I'm glad I
finally did.
I joked to a friend the other
day at the beach that everything else may sag with age but (because of
my reconstruction) my breasts never will!
At least there is a part of me
that gravity can't drag down! Keep your sense of humor intact.
Take one day at a
time. .
At times it looked to those on
the outside that I was "handling" everything wonderfully.
They thought I was so strong.
On the inside it was another
story. I would be at work and have an anxiety
attack. No warning. I just felt like I was having a
heart attack and couldn't breathe.
The doctor told me it was
stress. Stress can do strange things to your body and mind.
An earlier
e-mail posted to you said that you will think about
"it" all the time. They were
right. "It" is always there but eventually "it"
will subside and not be the
first thing you think about every day.
It is normal to be anxious but keep your chin up! If you have a bad day -
it's okay. The next day will be better. Just stay
busy.
You are facing this
battle in front of millions of people. It's been a
reminder to a lot of women (especially the younger
crowd) that breast cancer does not wait to hit until
after 50!
Hopefully your journey will encourage many to
do self-exams and to have their mammogram.
Maybe knowing that so many
others have walked the same road you are on will also help you with
each new day.
I know this is a little long
but cancer is long road. Most of us, who have traveled down
this road, could write a book.
I wish you well.
Remember to laugh!!!!!!!
Deb in Texas
(Thank you Jonathon for
receiving these posts for Christina.)
From Sumel Hey J.Schaech, I really don't know how to put this in words but tell her not to give up the fight and to be strong. My uncle was sick at one time and his health improved drastically becasue believe it or not, he WANTED to get better. I'm serious, when you are determined, it can happen. They only gave him 3 months to live, since his diagnosis he has been alive for 4 and counting. I don't know what religion she practices but, I am an episcopalian. Faith can move mountains as well as prayer. Also, thank her for making the effort to help and make a difference. My prayers are with her. From John Christina, Sending you my strongest wishes that you have a full recovery and live a healthy life. I hope that your reconstructive surgery pleases you. Always remember that beauty comes from the inside and those that love you always will love you. I am looking forward to seeing you on the screen again, you have made me laugh many times. As the Dalai Lama says, "With realization of one's own potential and self-confidence in one's ability, one can build a better world". You will be in my thoughts, as you have been since I first heard of your diagnosis. Peace, John Coarsegold From Harika and Dilara Hi Christina, We are Harika and Dilara. We are sisters from Turkey. Harika is 31 and Dilara will be 25 soon:) We loove you, more than anything. We can't explain how much we love you. You are like a real big sister for us. You are us everything and in this world, we love you most. We couldn't come to life after this thing happened to you. But you gave power to us with your power. Now, we know that everything will be OK. Everything will be brighter than ever. (Like you). You are soo beautiful every single way. You are the most beautiful thing in the world. Just remember: We will always be with you. With our hearts and soul. Get Well Soon. See ya one day... Love Dilara and Harika Dear
Christina,
You
are an inspiration to alot of women out there.
God
bless and be strong.
Maria
From Melissa More Your story has hit close to home I am also 36 but I never had a Mammogram. My mother had Ovarian cancer so my sisters and I have always made sure to have our yearly papsmear. What I didn't take in consideration was that my grandmother had breast cancer and had to have her breast removed. I guess I always thought that I didn't need to be checked until I was 40. But since I heard your story it just reminded me that cancer doesn't care about age. So I'm going to get myself checked and talk my sisters into doing the same. You will inspire alot of us to get ourselves checked Thank You!! I wish you good health, love and happiness. Stay strong always. From David Christina 3 weeks ago (July 25) my wife also endured the 6.5 hour prophylactic bilateral mastectomy surgery. Having lost her 39 year old sister to breast cancer last October, we had the DNA tests performed and yes…they were both BRCA 1 mutation positive. My wife found out that she was positive in May 2008, had a overectomy in June and PBM in July. Having never been diagnosed with cancer, she is a Previvor. Both you and she are to be commended for your courage and most importantly not letting the situation rule your life. It is important that all BRCA positive individuals take charge of their health . Through such attitudes and actions you win!! My wife has received great comfort from a website that is dedicated to BRCA positive individuals. The website is http://www.facingourrisk.org/. I have nothing do with the site, but my wife is on the site daily retrieving information and reading the blogs. (You of course have been mentioned). It is regrettable that you have to go through this ordeal, but your high profile will raise awareness and hopefully help others . Best wishes and best of health David From Karen I too have been diagnosed. DCIS, very early but still CANCER. My mother had a mastectomy 11 years ago. Going strong at 70 today. I should get Dr's advice on next step, but in my eyes a mastectomy for both breasts will give me best long termsurvival rate. It is a surgery the doctors may NOT recommend unless I ask. I am finding that you have to ask everything. Some Dr's do not want to invade or take more than necessary. Cancer doesn't let you make mistakes and I am not a gambler. Your story is giving me information about options and others choices. Thank you for being so public about your illness. If you can do this at 36 I can do it at 50. God bless you and your family with good health and long lives. Karen Rayman From Nate Dear Christina, All the best in your recovery. Your positive attitude and strength are inspirational for all who face cancer and other diseases. Thanks, Johnathon, for posting these messages. You are both wonderful people. Best wishes, Nate Barlow Burbank, CA From Jamie John, Prayers for Christina and you. My mother-in-law was diagnosed with breast cancer back in 2001. She went through chemo and ultimately had the same surgery Christina has undergone. She recovered fully. Prayer, faith and friendship will get Christina through this. Your friends back here will keep y'all in our prayers. Take care my brother. In Zax, Jamie From Ziggy Hi johnathan ,I would like to pass on my best wishes to christina , I have been told my cousin has been diagnosed with breast cancer also, it's such a shock but were keeping positive, all the best, my prayers are with christina, her, family and friends. From Tashia - Maryland John, It is so awesome of you to remain close w/ Christina! My mom is a six year survivor of breast cancer! Renee knows all of this! Tell her to hang in there! It is a rough recovery but she will pull through and be stonger than ever! You are such an awesome and caring person John! We should all learn from you! We love you! Tashia From Lis I am a huge fan of Christina's career. She has so much talent, & i know i have laughed so much from watching her shows, made my difficult days seem so much easier. Laughter, friendship, & love is sometimes the best medicine, put faith & prayer with that & i know she can survive this & anything else to enjoy a lifetime of memories yet to come! Take care & God Bless You Christina! my prayers are with you From Louise I
wish you the best in your recovery Christina. Your story is
an inspiration for many women to get regular check-ups (self exams
don't work very well).
I
have never seen your shows, but I do stay tuned to news. I'll
be thinking about you when I run or practice yoga (which explains why I
never watch TV!).
Best
wishes and thanks again for your openness with your health.
Louise
Gold
Playa
del Rey, CA
From Maria Christina I feel as if I
have grown up watching you on television, I spent my teen years
laughing with you, and now I spend my adult years being INSPIRED by you! Keep that beautiful head up girl! God loves you and so do I bless you girl! Maria From Athena What a wonderfully caring and thoughtful thing to do for someone. One friend can make a world of difference during times like these. Bless you for the hope you bring. I wish Christina a long and loving life, full of victory. From Missy Christina Was glad to hear that you and your mom are doing good and that you have each other in your lives. I only wish you and your family only the best and that you all are in my thoughts. take care missy From Remie James Dearest Christina, My thoughts and prayers are with you. As being the writer and artist I am I portray my females as strong humans and you I believe is definitely a strong female. You have my thoughts and prayers with your future. You are a wonderful actress Best of luck and well wishes Remie James From Janine It's probably ridiculous for me to be e-mailing you. It's just that I watched you when I was a child in Married with Children and now my own kids are watching re-runs and loving it, so you almost feel like part of the family. There are very few actresses that I admire and you are certainly at the top of the list. Maybe that's why I took it so hard when I heard that you were diagnosed with cancer and this morning I read that you had had a double mastectomy. I have been searching all day for a way to contact you and simply tell you that I applaud your brave decision (thank you for the opportunity Johnathon). You are a lot stronger than I think I would be in the same situation. There are so many people out there who care about you, most of whom you will never know. Stay strong and have faith. I will keep you in my prayers and I look forward to seeing you in many more shows and movies in the years to come. All the best, Janine (Dubai United Arab Emirates) From Christopher Christina,
you are one of my favourite actresses. When I heard news that you
discovered that you have cancer, I was SHOCKED. But now, I am very glad
to hear that you have fully recovered!! I wish you all the best during
your recovery and getting back to life.
One of
the Bundy family mottos is "It sees us, insults us, we kick it's ass".
It definitely applied to cancer this time.
Best
regards,
Chistopher
P.
John,
I have always been a huge fan of Christina's, I was shocked to
hear of the news. It is so wonderful to hear that she is doing great!
Please let her know that she is in my thoughts &
prayers. I wish
her nothing but the best! Thank you for getting this to her!From Melissa I personally don't know Christina Applegate but my thoughts and prayers are for her. I can't imagine the emotional and physical stress she is feeling but she should know she is still a beautiful woman inside and out. From Ashley-Anthony Parker Good Afternoon,
First of, I would just
like to say how brave and admirable you are. I have been keeping up in
the USA Websites (I'm from the UK) and have been following your ordeal.
Obviously its never nice having your private life scattered on the
papers but in a turnaround of events - your message is out there and
hopefully it will help other women to look after themselves and get
themselves checked out.
I am a 24 yr old man, lives in
Essex. 3 years ago my mum was diagnosed with breast cancer and it hit
out family hard, I could never imagine what it must have felt like for
her (or for you) to be told you have cancer and, just like my mum, to
have a mastectory, but the pain I was feeling was immense. She found
the lump after losing alot of weight, and was told by doctors if she
had never had lost the weight, she would not have found the lump, and
would not be with us now. It was like a blessing in
disguise. My mum is
still with us. Like you, she has beat the cancer. She wasn't like
herself afterwards. My mum is a tough woman from East London and this
did kind of shatter her. I obviously don't mean to sound negative or to
make you feel un-easy in anyway, i just wanted to express her
story -
just so you, and people who read these messages seem to get an idea to
deal with these situations. She was happy to have the mastectory, and
to beat the cancer, but obviously losing one of your breasts
for a
woman, she mentioned how she didn't feel like her. After 3 years, (this
year) she had the reconstruction, and I have never seen her happy. She
feels complete and so full of life. Your a brave woman with a strong
career (We haven't received Samantha Who? yet in the UK but have seen
clips - and congrats on the success) and I wish you all the best in
your future operation in the reconstruction. Everyone in the UK wishes
you well - and hopes everything is well for the future. Good luck - and
stay true.
UK Fan
Ashley-Anthony Parker
From JW Coffey - Author "I've lost too many family and friends to cancer...enough to rally behind anyone and cheer for each victory--small or large. But especially the small, because those are the daily miracles. Sending my prayers out for Ms. Applegate and asking for blessings for her. To stay cancer free." From Rick, Andrea, Nicolette and Meghan Christina
I just want to wish you all the best for a
full recovery. I have
been a fan for years and was saddened by the news of cancer. I
am a
father of two girls, and have one granddaughter, and
I want to thank
you for being a great role model for them, especially when there seem
to be so few. Samantha Who gives us a common thread for us to spend
time together watching. The news I read yesterday of you
being cancer
free now, was a bright spot for us.
Thanks again and we look forward to watching you.
Rick, Andrea, Nicolette and Meghan
From Sandy, Lex and George Great post Johnathon. It's awesome that you can remain so close, especially during this difficult time. It's hard to imagine that someone so young, beautiful, talented and full of life has to battle something so horrible this early in life. But with her positive attitude and the support of her loved ones and her fans alike, she will make it! Christina is in my prayers, and the reason why I just scheduled my first mammogram to be done in September. I'm 34 and wasn't due to have my first one done til I am 40, according to my doctor. But she is proof that cancer doesn't care about the "recommended" age and will strike whoever and whenever it wants. Please tell her that she has already touched so many lives and raised more awareness to our age group who sometimes takes life for granted. She is a true inspiration to women everywhere! God Bless Christina and you too, Johnathon, for standing by her no matter what. You're a truly great guy!" From Tanja What a brave woman you are! You are an inspiration to everyone, keep fighting and just remember that the whole world is rooting for you Love, Tanja From Dewi I hope Christina knows she's not alone. Today I learned that at 35 after numerous bad-positives, I'm cancer free, which to me sent me skipping along; but in hindsight, made me think of those who can't celebrate my joy. I went through a very hard time while waiting for my diagnosis, and while I'm in the clear for now, I'm not out of the woods, I can understand the trauma the waiting and then the negative diagnosis can bring. BRAVO for Christina's proactive approach. I'm sure in an industry that appreciates the physical where's she's she's chosen it was a difficult choice, but where I feel sidelined is that we really are all here for a purrpose, regargdless of ther fact that I don't belive in God himself, yet there's still so much hope ... From Elisa Christina, YOU ARE SO BRAVE AND AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love your acting, attitude and positive spirit! We love you & GOD BLESS YOU!!! Elisa Hollandsowrth Washington State From Marion Hello Christina my name's Marion && I love your work, especially in Married With Children because it's really funny i watch it everyday.You're such a great actress I so wish I could meet you, if you ever come to France..Well anyways I wish you the best for your recovery!When I read you had a cancer I cried soo much , I've seen many of your movies (whcih I have on dvds) and I wanted to tell you that i love u so much. From Claude "Thanks for the relay of my message. -- We all have decisions in life, but what Christina has done is beyond understanding. Christina has hit in the butt. She will be regarded by all, as the leading lady to women with breast cancer. A life is a lot more important than having cancerous mammery glands. My lifetime buddy's wife died of breast cancer. She had the lump removed from one breast. It continued its menace and she had the breast removed, but it was too late and the cancer travelled throughout her body. I'm glad for Christina to take her life into her own hands and envision the problem as a threat to her life. We love you Christina for what you've done. You're still my pretty girl. Thanks Jonathon for taking the time to reach out and support Christina." From: Rahil Dear Christina, You are such a strong individual that you truly give others who are in similar situation as yours hope & faith that they will recover in no time! You're a great role model for every woman out there! Your positive attitude, your strength and your faith is unparallel! And we should all gain ample of knowledge from your beautiful traits! I pray for your speedy recovery, and I know that you will be out and about in no time! Our prayers are always with you! Much love! From Pete "The hardest thing I've ever had to do in my life was watch my dad take his last breath when he lost his battle to colon cancer. That memory still haunts me 5 years later. I've also had relatives die from the disease and friends that have lost loved ones to it. Cancer is such a terrible disease, but in most cases, it is curable if caught early. I can tell that Christina is a very strong person and will fight her way through this. As Johnathon said, she is full of positivity and enthuasism, and that along with prayer will do wonders. She will also bring awareness to other women to get them to test early which will save many lives. I send my heartfelt prayers to her for strength to help her through this terrible time. She was kind enough to send me an autographed picture a few years ago which I proudly have posted on myspace page. I can tell that she is a genuine, down-to-earth person that anyone could easily become friends with. I send my thoughts and prayers to Christina and everyone else that has this terrible disease. I pray they not only beat it, but that they find a cure for it as well. Peace & love, Pete" From Drake "Jonathon - thank you so much for the info. Christina and I are the same age, and I hands down commend her decisions and strength during her fight. She is a true inspiration not only to women, but to everyone who faces overwhelming obsticles. I cannot express how much I respect her, and honor her! She is truely a hero and a fighter! Best wishes and a speedy recovery to you Christina!!! My family's thoughts and prayers are with you RIGHT NOW :) Love Drake T" From Tricia
Hi Christina, No pun
intended there, but apropos. I just wanted
to give you a shout out to commend you on your
brave, honest, and resolute disposition as
you face down cancer. I applaud you for your
treatment choices and taking care and control of your future.
I know I would have made the same aggressive choices
to ensure the quality and quantity
of my life. I am proud of
your grit. You rock
(as my students say)!
I'll
count it a privilege to pray for you across the miles as you thrive
each new day. Truly, you've been blessed
with an indomitable spirit and from the looks of
things, you have tremendous love and support
from family and friends which
will certainly serve to embolden you in the
days and months ahead.
With
warmest regards,
Tricia
Childers
Sterling,
VA <><
P.S.
Thank you, Johnathon, for availing this site and sharing the words of
encouragement. What a great way to model love and friendship!
From Lisa Johnathon, thanks for giving us the opportunity to send Christina our prayers and thoughts.Lisa Dear Christina, I have been a fan of yours for many years and was devastated to learn about your health scare. I had read that your early detection was a key factor in saving your life. Today I was saddened to hear about your surgery, but to know that you will be ok. I have had many people close to me touched by cancer and just a few days ago lost my aunt to lung cancer.You are a brave and strong woman. I hope this will make more women understand the importance of monthly self breast exams as well as annual mammograms. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Much love, Lisa Mason From Ruth Firstly i wish you the best for your recovery and always remember you are who you are and lots of people care and love you please stay possitive good luck.ruth From Jennifer Flood Dear
Ms. Applegate,
I am
your basic Mom who does not normally write email to entertainment
people (I barely watch the television). I wanted you to know
how sorry and hopeful I am for you! A young dear
friend of our family battles breast cancer and it is for her and young
women like your self I walk the 3-day in Phoenix. You are an
inspiration. I wish you health love and peace!
Jennifer
Flood
From Lori "Johnathon, my name is Lori (born and raised in Camarillo, CA- but now live in Fort Worth, TX.) I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer in Dec. last year and had a double mastectomy in Feb. I am 41. I recently heard about your ex-wife Christina and I hope I'm not offending you by trying to get in touch with her to talk. I know this is strange, but having your breasts cut off is a strange and surreal thing.... and sometimes having someone to talk with makes it much easier. I now have expanders in and will get my actual implant surgery in about a month. I too, know in my heart this was the right thing to do and feel confident that my future "bionic boobs" will stand the test of time compared to all my friends as we age. Hopefully, Christina and I BOTH will be the ones at the bridge table with the perkiest breasts when we are 90 years old! If this all sounds too strange, try to overlook my presumption with the fact that much in life has felt strange to me since my diagnoses and surgery. ! When I read about Christina, I felt so strongly about contacting her to see if she needed to speak with someone so very like her- who has recently had the same thing crash down upon them. Please know I am not a stalker, (although it seems I have stalked you to get to her...) but I didn't know where else to turn. I didn't know if a letter through her agent would actually get to her. Please let her know I am thinking of her and praying for her strength through all this. I have 2 little girls who I worry may now carry the gene and have so much to say and offer Christina as far as reassurance. If you would so kindly pass off my email address to her in case she just might want to talk with me, I would greatly appreciate it. I am an open, honest person who can talk about anything and would feel honored to answer any questions or concerns she might have. I hope this message gets to her and that she feels as strongly to contact me back. Please assure her I am a professional and understand her need for privacy and would never give out any info re: her condition or what we spoke of. I sincerely hope to hear from her and don't know why I feel so strongly about this. But I have learned in life that many urges and instincts I experience are for a reason. Nothing in life is a coincidence and sometimes we are brought together for reasons we don't fully understand until later. Please pass my message on to her and let her know I look forward to talking with her about her experience and feelings. Again, sorry to invade upon you and God bless. BTW- LOVED you in "That Thing You Do." Keep up the good work and positive attitude. And remember,... "It's funny how the world lives up to all your expectations." Always keep dreaming and aiming high! Thanks again- Lori" From Debbie I’ve been thinking of Christina since I heard the news of her diagnosis. Four year ago, at the age of 34 I went through the same challenge with breast cancer. I lost both my breasts, and my hair from chemo, but I gained a new perspective on life that I wouldn’t change for the world. The emotions you go through are dramatic and ever-changing. I hope Christina holds onto whatever positive feelings she can find within herself. . . they will get stronger every day and get her through this challenging chapter in her life. I wish I could tell her life
will get back to normal, but
cancer has a way of changing survivors forever. It will be a
“new”
normal, but it will be hers to create. Cancer takes control
away from us,
but only for as long as you let it. I pray Christina finds
strength
within herself, and the love and understanding of her friends and
family. I
know she will raise awareness among other young survivors and find a
way to
live a life not defined by cancer, but inspired because of it. Hi Christina, My name is Tina and I am 38 y/o nurse, a mother of 2 girls. I was diagnosed w/ breast cancer last October. Luckily mine was very low grade. I opted for the double masectomy too. I am still working on my reconstructive surgery. My grandmother died from breast cancer, and also my mother-in-law. I do not know if I had the gene or not, my insurance would not cover the test and I could not afford it. I believed the masectomy was the safest and smartest thing to do. I feel for you, but I am sure your family is by your side. Be strong, it is tough being diagnosed with such a terrible disease at a young age. It seems people are getting younger and younger. I am afraid for my girls because now they have more of a chance getting it because it is on both sides of our family (husbands and me). WE CAN BEAT IT! My prayers are with you. Thank you for listening, Dear Christina-- I have been looking all over the web to find an address where I can write to you and send my support and good wishes. It was 6 years ago this month that I found out I had breast cancer. And like you I was very scared.... and pissed off! The thing is,that I knew I would get this stupid thing...so I mentally prepared myself that when I did get it, both boobs would go. No ifs, ands or butts! I did not want to wait around for the cancer to come back in the other one and wait and worry... I know exactly what you are going thru...You toss and turn at night, you worry, your mind races. You pray... and you pray some more. (It really does help). I have relatives in Italy and they had called to say that they were praying for me. (At this moment, my eyes are tearing up...) Good for you in making the decision to have both taken off. My doctor gave me the choice of having a lumpectomy with radiation.. HELLL NO!! Or to have both off and no radiation. I took the latter. Then, it's 5 years of Tamoxifen with the hot flashes and some other wimpy side effects. BUT WHO CARES!!!! Gimme those hot flashes any ol' day! I remember a gal at a support group I went to said that for a time you will always be thinking about "it". But as years go on, that worry will somewhat fade into the background.It will be there...but no so prominent in your thoughts. Man oh man, you have MILLIONS upon millions of people praying and supporting you. Every morning when you wake up, just smile look upward, and say "thank you". ;=) Because... YOU ARE GOING TO BE JUST FINE!!!! sending a big ol' hug your way-- Mary From Thomas From Alice From Krystal
Christina, I just wanted to say my prayers have been with you. I also tested positive for the BRCA 1 gene. My mother has had breast cancer five times. She's still with us. I will be looking for more news on your foundation for high risk patients. I wrote this for Mom, as a breast cancer survivor. I hope it brings you comfort as you deal with the emotional side of this as well. We both know its not over yet. You've still got a ways. God be with you sweety, and all our prayers are with you as well. "Badge of Courage" I wear this badge of courage on my chest, To tell the world that I'm not like the rest… I may be small and I may be frail, But this little lady is tougher than nails. I wear a badge of courage on my chest To remind me of a weaker woman, It's not small or silver, or a braided gold, Just something that reminds me to let her go. I may be tired and scared, but I'm not weak, I'm the one who beat this thing while standing Within arms open wide, on my own two feet. Scars are brazen and never heal, At least that's the way I think it feels. Sexy is a state of mind, and if I am then so are you. Does your badge lie upon your chest too? From Amy From Dave
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